My wife, who has a serious and competitive personality and is working on the community association of her apartment building in preparation for the upcoming fall residents' festival, was always complaining about her neighbor, Mr. Miyashita, who lived on the upper floor. - Rules for taking out the trash, smoking in common spaces... ``That's exactly who he is...he's still in arrears with his union dues...all the other wives are scared and in trouble...'' My husband used to be a pacifist herbivore. - I always warned my wife not to cause too much trouble, but...